2012年2月25日星期六

Linsanity

I know nothing about NBA

I know nothing about Basketball

but, I know the Legend of Michael Jordan

now, I heard "LINSANITY", I heard Jeremy Lin

Today, I only know the true meaning of LINSANITY...

The Beginning of Another Legend


2012年2月24日星期五

心理-Mentality

突然,有一种想法。。。
Today, I have a thought...


心理学家,很多时候是寂寞的吧。。。?
Psychologist mostly Lonely in their mind world?


为,一位心理学家的工作是了解他人的心理,明白他人的想法,并从中解决他们的问题;
Why? Cause he/she responsible for the others mental thought, understand it, and to solve their confusion in their acceptable way or ways;


但,又有多少人了解他的心理和想法呢。。。?
However, how many are they being understand or even look through by others, especially friends around them...?


没有一个人可以一语道出千百种人的心态,
None can explain thousand mindset within  a phrase, not even an essay, a book or not even a known Psychologist.


但是心理学家就是针对单一的人去作出剖析。。。
However, they observe & analyse, one by one, attentively, mindfully and responsible to their every speak...


往道出的事实,是当事人不原面对的。。。
Sometime, the truth is those who cannot face it even themselves...


事实虽残忍,但却让人更了解自己,那不是更好吗?
The Truth is Cruel, but does it really bad to let ones to become better, from inside out?


只可惜,越看懂身边的人越寂寞,
Unfortunately, when getting more and more understand the people around you in a silence way, its getting more and more lonely.


因为没有人愿意把赤裸裸的自己展现人前,更不愿什么都被人看懂,所以人只想听自己喜欢的,
This is because, none wish to be observed nakedly, a semi-transparent wall with a door between you and me, and only come across the GOOD.


真实是把刀,不听会更好, 但事实会被时间揭开。
Reality like a Knife, You can keep your ear shut, but the Truth will tell by time .






Here I pray, to meet you, my fellow, one day...

2012年2月19日星期日

Burt's Bees - Radiace Series

Left: Radiance Toner RM69
Centre: Radiance SPF15 Lotion RM113.80
Right: Radiance Serum RM113.80

 Recommend 1: Products with Paraben & Phthalates Free.


Recommend 2: Products Ingredient Included Royal Jelly.

The Incredible thing is the brand absolutely Go Green by bring back any empty bottles of it product, customers will get 20% discounts for their purchase on the new one!

Thats Amazing!
Thats Become One of The Reason I am Highly Recommend This Product!

2012年2月17日星期五

沟通与了解的重要

很多事情都可以用冠冕堂皇的词句去掩饰;


相信的,是凭据对那人的了解程度;
怀疑的,也是凭据对那人的了解程度,或是,不了解,或不够了解。


当每件事都根据自己想的那样,那就太完美了。
但,现实往往不是,人更是复杂,所以才需要沟通与了解做桥梁,前提是必须在沟通后对事情重新有过认知。然后,再重新审视自己的所见所闻,重新定论或选择再次沟通,一直到双方达成共识,那或许才是良好的解决方案。


若一方选择解释,表示愿意沟通;但,另一方仍维持己见,不愿意再去相信或再做任何深谈,是因为不愿意知道事情真相, 又或则是认为再次的了解只不过是再次的受骗受伤害。。。
那就得取决于个人的决定和思维,去分析人、物及当时的情况。 重要的是在事情没摊开来说之前,没有人可以决定谁是对的而谁又是错的;


甚至,或许,当事情摊开了,解决了,才发现根本没对错,只不过是沟通上的问题,态度上的错误表现。


若一味的认定自己才是受害者,说真的,这也很难再谈下去。所以,如以上所说的,放下成见,才能畅然而谈。


当然, 若真的对上了金絮其外,败絮其中的人,可以选择规劝、可以选择不深交甚至选择不相往来。


也当然的,不该对能言善道的人有任何负面的看法,除非对此人有一定的了解。即使了解了,也得要就事论事。毕竟,能言善道非坏事,而每件事超过了也都不好。但,绝对不能肯定善言语的人就特别会掩饰错误,或是黑的也能说成白的,这是不公平的。当需要一个人的这项才能时就赞赏有加,当有代沟了就说此人太会说话,不可信。。。这,怎么解?


最后,若连沟通和了解也不需要了,那结果是可想而知的了,那说真的,还能怎么样呢?

2012年2月14日星期二

Don't disguise, Don't pretend; Be True, Be Honest

Don't Disguise yourself to be someone else...
Don't Pretend yourself to be alright when it is not...



What you have to do, is TO BE Honest...TO BE True...




Otherwise, when...




Tik Tok....   Tik Tok...   Tik Tok...   Tik Tok...   Tik Tok...



                    
              Time goes by...


 All You will be is Alone......Just Alone......

2012年2月11日星期六

Early Valentine @ SkyBar


Ready......Go!!!


First Stop at Suria KLCC, to buy my new baby >.< ......

Fossil - Handbag RM779 (Like it so much when I first saw it in Queensbay Mall!!!)

Estee Lauder - Night Repair RM240 (Bought due to nice comments from friends^^)


Next Stop at Skybar...





With my Dear <3 <3 <3

Handsome??? xD Snap by me =P



Nice view from our seat ^.-






Cocktail - Lychee Rose (Esp for lady ^.^)







Thanks to My Dear's Best Friend + Buddy + Handsome Manager - Jason Soon
We do enjoy a Good Night Here!